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...Vance has you...

Wake up Neo...
...Vance's Sanity has you...
...Follow the white rabbit....
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I AM THE ONE!

Saturday, February 19, 2005

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One would realise that some people are constantly attached, to different people. It is not a matter of infidelity that is being suggested. Rather, it is a question as to if some people are really addicted to love, or the idea of love. Given that half the peers that I have are not virgins, a third from the other half are lesbians- which means technically, they are not counted as virgins; a third have never had a partner even though they wanted to have a lick at the fruit of physical intimacy; I would conclude that sex plays a big part in people getting attached. Some people choose to remind single because of issues like financial considerations, time constraints, freedom and the inability to find the ideal partner.
Some people, have however, no hesitation or whatsoever of getting 'what we like to say'- hitched. To them, it does not really matter if the stark differences of character are present, it is a matter of what status they are in. Ever felt the pressure to get a partner when all your peers are in the stages of romance? Well, I know of people who cannot live without a steady partner. One of my ex-girlfriends seem to always get attached to someone within a month or so. Thus, having many short-lived relationships. Some friends have also problems with members of the opposite sex. They seem to be unable to not like someone they see. They fall in love too easily and maybe convince themselves that the person in question is suitable for them. What they do not see is the odds stacked against them and when these issues come up, their commitment to the relationship is just like their love- a gross misinterpretation. They end relationships as soon as there are signs of trouble. The days where two people will stick it out through thick and thin are now far and few.
Maybe some people have the obssession with being attached and to be love. Love is a big word that many people cannot understand at the tender age of forteen and some are still trying to understand the meaning of it at forty-five. It is imperative for one to find a partner? To be attached is one simple issue, but commitment is not. Alas, many will still seek for the one when they do not know how to love. Let not my words be a discouragement but as a motivation to find oneself the meaning of truly loving someone. That said, I must emphasize that these words are not directed at anyone.

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